Poem : š·Joy with no strings attachedā¦
Poetess : Tilottama Vijay Lele
Joy should be with āno strings attachedā
This principle will have a positive impact
If our happiness depends on something,
Weāre already stuck in for nothingā¦
Hard truthās external Joy = internal prison
In finding joy, we lose our freedom
With something we become obsessed,
When we get it, happiness is short-lived
D obsession loses it's magical qualityā¦
So it's " happiness high " wears off early.
Thatās d problem with external happiness
Itāll fade into d background of our livesā¦
No longer delivering d joy they promised,
But d dependence remains unchangedā¦
We humans R weird about happiness.
We treat it like d treasure huntās prizesā¦
For us joy is like a promotion,
A dream house or a perfect companionā¦
We put our happiness on holdā¦
N make it depend on things out of control
Then we wonder why we feel stuckā¦
Thinking joyāll wait at checkpoints for us.
Like getting a degree, a job or a partner.
As if at checkpoint, Happiness'll show up
But itāll be only for about a short period.
N then weāll feel lonely & sadā¦
So we'll chase d next checkpoint
N this race will go on-n-on till d endā¦
This isnāt just someone's problem,
D way most people operate, is d sameā¦
When our joy depends on something,
Weāve already lost lifeās precious timeā¦
Weāve handed over d total controls,
Of our emotional state to external factors
Itās like giving d keys to our house
N then being surprised when they lock us
Then d formula looks like this:
D Happiness = When X happens
X could be a job, relationship, a vacation
Money, Weight loss or Recognitionā¦
D problem isnāt wanting these things.
But d basic faulty thinkingā¦
That happiness depends on thingsā¦
N those things determine Our-Happiness
Our happiness is a state of our Mindā¦
N it depends on our thinking n well being
š·@Tilottama Vijay Lele
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